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Hello all, Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I don't know if there is any hope left for me and my ex-boyfriend. We were together for three years, and we went through a lot of good and bad things of course. We were also doing a LDR, and as such it was hard to see each other often. But when we did see each other, it was the most amazing times. My ex used to be so full of love, care, empathy, kindness and reason. He was diagnosed with some form of depression, and then he started to take the pills (sorry I don't remember which). Shortly after he began taking them, we actually broke up over some stupid things we would usually just work over. Now, he has changed into a completely different person. He is cold, hostile, and really short with me. I understand that I am his ex, but he wouldn't treat me that way ever before. He told me he stops caring about everything, including me. Then he began to blame me for everything and he said he has regret and resentment for me. I believe the doctor was lowering the doses gradually, I believe halving it each week. Then yesterday he said that he was completely off of it. And I am not sure if he will return back to the same person he once was? He was having many severe mood swings, but one thing always was clear was that he didn't want to be with me at that moment. He says he missed me physically, but not emotionally. I am not sure what to think about that. Then he keeps wanting to cut off contact with me, I believe the only reason why he's let me text him is because I beg him to let me know updates about his mental health. The antidepressants definitely ruined our relationship. And I am wondering once he is off... Will he return back to the same person he once was before taking them? It appears that he has lost his attachments to me, our amazing memories and it kills me.