Parisien: premature ejaculation escitalopram 10mg and Brintellix 5mg - sexual dysfunction

[Ben190]

11 hours ago, Fairsome said:

@Ben190 so now you can have sex when you want to and don't have much problem getting good erection?

It’s depending on the day but all in all, a lot of days things work great yes, But sometimes you feel a lot but erection only at 70%. But I was not used to How intense something can be 🙈 I am pretty sure it’s possible to get to 100%.

 

Main Problem is that sometimes I feel horny sometime days Not at all. I will maybe do a 4 year Update This Summer 😊

[Ben190]

How Are you doing @Fairsome?

[Fairsome]

6 hours ago, Ben190 said:

How Are you doing @Fairsome?

Still bad sexually, it's a mess down there! But hopefully it gets better..

 

[Ben190]

3 hours ago, Fairsome said:

Still bad sexually, it's a mess down there! But hopefully it gets better..

 

It will, just keep going

[Parisien]

Hey guys, I've been dating lately and I manage to get turned on when there's contact, but when I watch porn it's very hard to get a reliable erection.  Premature ejaculation is still present and I don't think it will go away.  In my opinion it will not heal like that one day as if by magic.  There are not many solutions for me sexually.  Take a drug again to have an almost normal sexuality and a relationship duration that is close to normal.  Because even if I have a little libido I can't stand having short reports and an erection that is not 100% compared to before even very far from it.  Especially since it's been over a year since I stopped this ****.  I don't know if I would have the courage to wait very long.  I've been thinking about taking St. John's wort or even trying drinking alcohol to see if that will help me sexually.  But I don't do them.  I regret the me before and I am without loneliness.  I'm having a bad day because I see people evolve having children and having serious encounters and I'm not moving forward.  @Avicii I'm super happy for you my friend for your week skiing it's nice to wait 😉

 

@Ben190 4 years of weaning for you?  You are very brave congratulations to you.  I should be happy to have a bit of libido but I can't make do with it, what's the point if it's to have short sex.  Sometimes I tell myself that I will take this drug again for 15 years to live my life and anyway we only live our real life now, not when we are old

[Parisien]

Right now for me the morale is at its lowest.  I had periods where I believed in some improvements (sexual I speak), because I had some nocturnal or morning erections but it is very irregular.  Mentally it's always complicated even if it's going a little bit better I'm still very tired.  But sexually I wonder if I'm not going to try smoking or taking St. John's wort or griffonia.  To have a normal sexuality during my golden years.  Because when I read people having the pssd for 10 years I tell myself that if that's my case, I'm simply wasting my life.  And I don't want to take any more antidepressants because it's a bit of a shame to take that too, especially since I no longer wanted to but I had no choice.  I read on reedit that some cannabis smokers manage to find a somewhat normal sexuality when they smoke, I don't smoke but I know that if for example tomorrow I take an antidepressant or fear being St. John's wort which is already more  natural my premature ejaculation will go away and I will have a better erection and a better libido like when I was under treatment.  It's ugly to say but it's the reality.  How are you guys??

[Avicii]

@Parisienyou are absolutely correct when saying that this is ruining the best years of our lives. 

[Fairsome]

I have even worse problems than PSSD that are ruining my life even more than the PSSD... But it is still very bad to have it. But if Ben had so much healing, why can't we? He had all the symptoms and now he is close to recovery, we can get through this!

[Fairsome]

Hi guys how are you doing? @Ben190 @Parisien @Avicii

[Ben190]

@Fairsome @Parisien @Avicii

 

hey guys  I am doing good, still not so much libido but down there things feel Great Most of the Time. Hope Rest will resolve soon too. Right now dealing with covid but Even that doesnt stop Morning and Night erections.

 

How are you doing? Never give up 😇💪

[Avicii]

You’re a lucky guy Ben! Hope you will get 100% healed someday.

 

I am still in survival mode. Everyday is still a struggle even if things are improving extremely slowly. My penis is still a complete mess which makes me think that there has been some kind of permanent physical injury in that area…even when I try to get an erection my penis is shorter and much thinner than before. It’s just not my penis….

 

Still anhedonia and I am having a hard time when it comes to emotions towards my kids and other people. 
 

I hope someone is gonna wake me up from this nightmare soon! 
 

I believe that I have reached a new stage where I am starting to remember my old self and my old personality but I can not live it. My brain and body still says ”No, you can’t go there”. It’s a rough stage because I can now see and remember my past which makes me realise what I am missing out on.

 

I will continue to fight, I haven’t got this far to give up now.

[Parisien]

@Avicii I see what you are saying it's hard to live with.  Me my erections are sometimes good sometimes less I good.  Do you think that if tomorrow you take an antidepressant your penis will return to a normal size and that you will have better erections etc?  I'm not saying this is what to do far from it is only a question.  Because under antidepressants I personally had a good erection etc.

[Fairsome]

1 hour ago, Parisien said:

@Avicii I see what you are saying it's hard to live with.  Me my erections are sometimes good sometimes less I good.  Do you think that if tomorrow you take an antidepressant your penis will return to a normal size and that you will have better erections etc?  I'm not saying this is what to do far from it is only a question.  Because under antidepressants I personally had a good erection etc.

No it won't heal the damage in the body!

[Ben190]

On 3/20/2023 at 6:54 AM, Avicii said:

You’re a lucky guy Ben! Hope you will get 100% healed someday.

 

I am still in survival mode. Everyday is still a struggle even if things are improving extremely slowly. My penis is still a complete mess which makes me think that there has been some kind of permanent physical injury in that area…even when I try to get an erection my penis is shorter and much thinner than before. It’s just not my penis….

 

Still anhedonia and I am having a hard time when it comes to emotions towards my kids and other people. 
 

I hope someone is gonna wake me up from this nightmare soon! 
 

I believe that I have reached a new stage where I am starting to remember my old self and my old personality but I can not live it. My brain and body still says ”No, you can’t go there”. It’s a rough stage because I can now see and remember my past which makes me realise what I am missing out on.

 

I will continue to fight, I haven’t got this far to give up now.

I know it’s Hard… but the longer you can keep going the more you will be your old self. Today was a Crazy day I was struggling with too much emotions. First near tears then happy then I was wondering wtf* is going on.

 

But your System is adjusting. It Takes Time and when you feel like 50%+ healed you will believe that 100% is possible. 
 

Never give up!

[Ben190]

On 3/20/2023 at 5:43 PM, Fairsome said:

No it won't heal the damage in the body!

That is correct, taking an AD again especially the same as before increases your Chance of having Even worse pssd from my experience.

[Fairsome]

@Ben190 do you have a normal blood flow to the penis now and before recovery? 

[Ben190]

22 minutes ago, Fairsome said:

@Ben190 do you have a normal blood flow to the penis now and before recovery? 

Now definetely yes, only Problem is sometimes more libido Medium errection, sometimes Good erection But less libido.

 

before recovery the First 2 Year’s penis blood flow was extremly bad…

 

How Are you?

[Fairsome]

4 hours ago, Ben190 said:

Now definetely yes, only Problem is sometimes more libido Medium errection, sometimes Good erection But less libido.

 

before recovery the First 2 Year’s penis blood flow was extremly bad…

 

How Are you?

I am like 15 months into this. The blood flow is very bad, it seems like there isn't enough blood down there and erections are weak and thinner...

[Avicii]

25 minutes ago, Fairsome said:

I am like 15 months into this. The blood flow is very bad, it seems like there isn't enough blood down there and erections are weak and thinner...

I have the same….almost 2,5 years now. Hard to believe in 100% healing.

[Ben190]

1 hour ago, Fairsome said:

I am like 15 months into this. The blood flow is very bad, it seems like there isn't enough blood down there and erections are weak and thinner...

That was exactly what I dealt with 😕 But it resolved. My penis looked weird for a Long Time… After stopping I didnt even have sperm… 

[Ben190]

1 hour ago, Avicii said:

I have the same….almost 2,5 years now. Hard to believe in 100% healing.

Healing is definetely possible for most people, question is when. What do u do on a Daily Routine?

[Fairsome]

Avicii, you said that it took around 2 months for your system to crash so you are more like 2 years into this. I think healing is very possible. Ben had exactly the same and for him it resolved so just hang in there.

 

[Avicii]

5 minutes ago, Fairsome said:

Avicii, you said that it took around 2 months for your system to crash so you are more like 2 years into this. I think healing is very possible. Ben had exactly the same and for him it resolved so just hang in there.

 

You are correct, it’s almost exactly 24 months since my system crashed, 26 months since my last pill. 

[Fairsome]

Ben claims that his best healing came at 2.5 and 3 years, so there is time for you too!

[Avicii]

15 minutes ago, Ben190 said:

Healing is definetely possible for most people, question is when. What do u do on a Daily Routine?

I am a teacher and I work 100%. It’s crazy that I have been able to teach all this time and the students love me. I visit Berlin last week actually together with my students, great city!
I am very good in hiding my problems…

 

I have my kids 50% and I give them what I can but it’s not like it used to be. I don’t have the same emotions anymore. More than that I don’t have a life anymore. I have quit; all sports, going to the gym, being a soccer coach, sex, coffee and friends. I don’t have the power nor the interest to do the things I used to. 
 

I am alot better than I was a year ago…looking forward to april 2024. All I have to do is stay alive I guess.

[Ben190]

3 hours ago, Avicii said:

I am a teacher and I work 100%. It’s crazy that I have been able to teach all this time and the students love me. I visit Berlin last week actually together with my students, great city!
I am very good in hiding my problems…

 

I have my kids 50% and I give them what I can but it’s not like it used to be. I don’t have the same emotions anymore. More than that I don’t have a life anymore. I have quit; all sports, going to the gym, being a soccer coach, sex, coffee and friends. I don’t have the power nor the interest to do the things I used to. 
 

I am alot better than I was a year ago…looking forward to april 2024. All I have to do is stay alive I guess.

I had the same… it was so hard to have no emotions, no interests, nothing… i feel your pain. I have been there too… But I am more than 3,5 years off so you have to hang in there. Every day is another day back to normality. Never give up!  things can change for the better!

[Avicii]

@Ben190At 26 months in, were you still 100% asexual? Did you have daily spasms in your penis, were you able to connect with your family? Did you have brain fog and feeling weird? Was your penis still dead/shrunk/thin? 
 

I have all this and more, how can theese pills be legal???

 

I have bought a gym card now, I am trying to push through this hell….

[Ben190]

37 minutes ago, Avicii said:

@Ben190At 26 months in, were you still 100% asexual? Did you have daily spasms in your penis, were you able to connect with your family? Did you have brain fog and feeling weird? Was your penis still dead/shrunk/thin? 
 

I have all this and more, how can theese pills be legal???

 

I have bought a gym card now, I am trying to push through this hell….

Yes, I was still struggling quite a lot… and no I still had struggle to connect, Penis had bad erections, Brain fog was still terrible and I was feeling disconnected. Penis was thin Yes and most days dead.

 

but take it easy don’t pull too much weight too fast. Your Body might crash, u heave to increase slowly

 

Wait another half year and See if it’s better with 3 Year’s off  u will Continue healing

[Fairsome]

I don't have brain fog but the penis is still dead and shrunk. It's also connected to gut issues, bloating, problems in the pelvic floor

[Ben190]

6 hours ago, Fairsome said:

I don't have brain fog but the penis is still dead and shrunk. It's also connected to gut issues, bloating, problems in the pelvic floor

I know… did u See changes in other Symptoms? Or do u mainly struggle with Pssd?

[Fairsome]

13 hours ago, Ben190 said:

I know… did u See changes in other Symptoms? Or do u mainly struggle with Pssd?

My main issues are sexual dysfunction and gut problems, fecal and urinary incontinence. I still have no improvements but I am only a little more than year in...

[BerCal]

I am so sick of this bullsh*t. Years into this now and still completely dysfunctional.

[Ben190]

On 4/4/2023 at 12:31 PM, Fairsome said:

My main issues are sexual dysfunction and gut problems, fecal and urinary incontinence. I still have no improvements but I am only a little more than year in...

Yes But a year is quite early, give it some more time 

[Ben190]

45 minutes ago, BerCal said:

I am so sick of this bullsh*t. Years into this now and still completely dysfunctional.

I know it’s hard, But keep in mind I stopped 1,5 years before you. You should Not give up, there is a Good Chance to heal… :)!

[Fairsome]

@BerCal I completely agree that it is a shame for the medical community to do this to us. I also want to say I took the pills because I have horrific anxiety that's stealing my life and making me dysfunctional in some areas of life and instead of getting help, I got left with iatrogenic damage from these drugs... What world do we live in?

[Avicii]

I agree, it’s a crime and the doctors should be punished…

 

I have pretty much lost everything in my life due to the medical community; my hair and skin destroyed by Accutane and my brain and body ruined by SSRI. It’s such a parody….

 

I read about a swedish soccer player who had a brain tomor a year ago and now he’s back on the pitch. A brain tumor is easier to heal than 4 months use of SSRI….LOL!!!